The Liebster Award
Happy 2013! A little while ago SeattlePolyChick nominated me for this fancy-ass blog award called the LiebsterAward. Woo! Thankyou lady! You should all check out her blog, it’s pretty awesome. So,...
View ArticleMetamour Meeting
It may be suprising to note that two people I mention frequently in this blog have never actually met. Orion lives a few blocks away from me, whilst ElkFeather is a few hours journey away. They have...
View ArticleRainforest Ruminations
Silence- whilst something I’ve always been comfortable with when alone- isn’t something that comes so readily when I find myself around folks I really like. I love to communicate. Heck, even when I’m...
View ArticlePolysingleish Interviews Franklin Veaux, Part 1: Being Poly
Franklin Veaux http://www.xeromag.com Franklin Veaux has been blogging about polyamory since the earliest days of blogging. As a result, his self-described ‘sprawling web empire’ covers a lot of ground...
View ArticleHungry and Horny
mrrrraow? Oh god I’m horny. Spring is in the air. My sex drive is no longer hibernating andI’m hungry. I feel my body grumbling, looking, yearning, wanting. Yup, the low libido season is over. Sigh....
View ArticleValentine’s and Validation
“People say that what we’re all seeking is a meaning for life. I think what we’re seeking is an experience of being alive… actually feeling the rapture of being alive.” ~Joseph Campbell I used to be...
View ArticleThe Compersion Conundrum
Compersion: Describing an empathetic state of happiness and joy brought about by knowing or witnessing the happiness and joy of another individual. Often used to describe the positive feelings an...
View ArticleCandid Courtship
On my first date with Loki we got into a conversation about chivalry, and the question of, “Is chivalry dead?”. Our conversation rapidly diverged to bananas, sangria, hipsters, crazy things we’ve done...
View ArticleEmbracing the Epicness
It has been a busy week. A week of epic proportions. In the last seven days I have: had an educational tour of sex stores with a well known writer of kinky sex stories learned that a tens machine can...
View ArticleExorcising the Exhaustion
I’m tired. Actually, I take that back. I’m exhausted. I feel drained physically, mentally, and emotionally. My friend Kat bugged me the other day about the fact that I never seem to be free to hang...
View ArticleShifting Sands
Breakups are one of the strangest things to do. Even more so in the poly world. The last time I broke up with someone- as in, I was the person saying ‘I don’t want this romantic relationship anymore’-...
View ArticleMalfunctioning Mothers
Mother’s day is hard for me. Most people will assume it is because of the miscarriages, because of my children that never were. But it really isn’t. I read so many loving sentiments from people...
View ArticleWhat’s Done, Is Done.
“Things without all remedy Should be without regard: what’s done, is done.” ~ William Shakespeare When I walked into Finn’s place, the cat greeted me immediately with meows of “Where the F*&$ have...
View ArticleWorking the Willpower
The other evening, after work, I went for dinner with an ex. Any readers who follow my Facebook page would have seen my self mantra of “I will not sleep with this ex, I will not sleep with this ex, I...
View ArticlePandora Percolating
“I’m afraid. And I need to acknowledge this verbally, that although I don’t want to, some part of me is holding back in sharing all my love, all this love that I am so desperate to share. And I don’t...
View ArticleLetting Love Live
It’s Thursday evening. The windows are open and a warm summer breeze is drifting through my home. Natalie Imbruglia is warbling through my iPhone and I’m licking a bowl of mango-banana-coconut pudding...
View ArticleFriendships and Flirtations
“It’s not about finding your soul-mate, M. It’s about getting to know someone a whole lot better, and in a totally different way.” These words were spoken to me by my first boyfriend, Tony. Tony has...
View ArticleShame and Sexuality
What do you know of great love? Have you ever loved a woman until milk leaked from her as though she had just given birth to love itself, and now must feed it or burst? Have you ever tasted a woman...
View ArticleDancing Out The Demons
“Wholeness comes from not condemning any aspect of yourself, but inviting those aspects to merge with your Heart. Wholeness comes from being open to expand into all that you are and facing your own...
View ArticlePolysingleish Interviews Franklin Veaux, Part 1: Being Poly
Franklin Veaux http://www.xeromag.com Franklin Veaux has been blogging about polyamory since the earliest days of blogging. As a result, his self-described ‘sprawling web empire’ covers a lot of ground...
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